Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Just A Little Ranting...

*warning: major long post of ranting ahead*

My parents went to Penang on Monday morning, then they decided to make a turn to Kedah, where my hometown is. I'm totally fine fine with it as I'm not a 3 years old kiddo and I am more than capable to take care of my siblings and myself. Some how, they decided to surprise me. I received a call saying this cousin of mine (let's call her A) on my father's side whom I don't really like is coming. Just when I thought 'Oh great, what could be worse', another bomb hit me. A is coming to work in KL and staying with me...
WHAT THE HELL!!!
I wouldn't mind if she's not those fakers who pretended to be all good and faultless in front of the adults. I have not been able to bring myself to talk to her since young. Yes, the occasional "catch-up" talk maybe but never on a personal topic. All my life, my parents like to compare me to her, always saying how good she is, how obedient she is, how good she's treating the elders. Sometimes, I just feel like telling them to open their eyes and see for themselves her pretentious attitude and her faked "oh-I'm-so-good-and-innocent behaviour . Not long ago during my uncle's funeral, we were suppose to take turn to guard the 'donation box' but NO, she'd rather go around boot-licking the adults than doing what she's supposed to do. My sis, Doreen (my cousin bro's gf) and myself were sitting there guarding the 'donation box' for hours. She guarded the box for less than 30 mins and she started complaining to the adults that we left her alone to guard the box and she kept sending the younger cousins to call us to get back to the box... Who wouldn't be pissed off??? I didn't wanna quarrel with her on that day so I just let it go.
Alright back to August 5th 2008...
My parents and A reached my house at 10pm. I went to open the gate. Helped with unloading the bags and all. Once I stepped into the house my dad starts to nag and say I never listen to him, didn't do what he told me to. bla bla bla.
First of all, yes, I was on leave yesterday but not for fun, my backbone is killing me thanks to the the 'monthly visit from Aunt Red'. How on earth you expect me to do all the house chores alone??? My sis was working, bro at school... Second, It's MY place, MY room, why should I change MY way of living just because someone I don't really please moved in???
My dad told me to respect her. Yes, she's a year, NO a few months older than me, so what??? I'll give her my respect if she's not such a faker in the first place...
One more thing that really pissed me off is my dad. I got 5 free movie pass from my colleague for the movie 'Meet Dave', I planned to go with my parents and siblings. Frankly speaking, ever since I moved to KL, I've never once step into the cinema with my parents. And every time I suggest that we go to a movie together he'll say keep the money for better use... All I want is for the 5 of us to spend some time together, is that too much to ask for??? When I told him that I have 5 free movie pass, he told me to bring A along and sell the extra ticket... I almost lost control and talked back to my dad...
I'm not a person who can fake my feelings, I show what I feel. I tried to talk to her, but I just seem to get the word out. I just couldn't stand it when she flash her fake smile...
I will try my best to be good to her as I don't want my parents to feel bad. I shall prove myself to then that she's not better than me. I will make sure I unmask her...

*sorry for putting you guys through my ranting*

3 comments:

Wendy said...

wooo Anna on fire!

Yea I understand how you feel about parents not listening to us and just go on with assuming that we're not capable of handling things our way :(

And A's matter, you need to show her a piece of mind if she steps on your tail! But in the meantime, bear bear with her lor, afterall she's still family ma right?

Anna mou lou hei okie, I'll be coming KL soon! Weeeeeeeeeeee!

SaeWei said...

omg... that A is gonna stay with you permanently ke???

Anyway, a way to deal with a bitch is to become a bitch yourself. But be prepare to be scolded by the parents because parents ONLY chosse to see their children's mistakes and not some other bitches.

If that bitch cross the line tell your dad if she stays you are leaving the house for good! Then come and stay with me :)

But if she doesnt start showing you her bitchiness then give her a chance and bear with her loh.. ^^V

OMG.. Good Luck Anna~

Anna said...

Wendy,
I was super frust that time...
I shall wait for your arrival ^_^

Saewei,
I'll never let anybody step on my tail... Thx for offering me your house babe... lol